Among sexual practices, the golden shower remains quite discreet. If one reads advice on sodomy at every turn, urophilia, for its part, is only timidly mentioned.
A taboo for some, a fantasy for others, ondinism (its more poetic name) nevertheless has many followers. Its appeal being more psychological than physical, what is experienced and loved in uro differs from person to person.
I therefore went in search of people who appreciate the golden shower, or other sexual acts related to urine, and I asked them to share their experiences and impressions with me. Those who answered me also practise BDSM, and uro is part of their games between master(s) and submissive(s). Here is what they told me.
A moment of intimate, privileged sharing
My Queen’s urine is a treasure. Really. And I take it as such. I cherish it. Because she offers me what very few women offer.
The frequency is not up to me. But every time she offers it to me, I thank her for it…
But I would not be complete in my remarks without mentioning the nature of this gift. It is not natural for a Woman to urinate on or into the mouth of a man. It means showing oneself in a position that can, for “vanilla” people (Note: vanilla refers to people who do not practise BDSM), seem humiliating. Also, when she did it for the first time, she showed me she wasn’t afraid of my judgement. That she had enough trust in my gaze to know she would be able to expose herself like that. It is an extremely intimate and privileged moment of sharing.
I have no liking for the taste, still less for the smell of urine in general. But I passionately, passionately love the taste of hers, the smell, the warmth…
The golden shower, a fantasy to be satisfied
As for me, the golden shower is a fantasy I seek to satisfy.
I would like to feel the urine of one or more women run down my body and fill my mouth. Why? I don’t know, but I feel the desire for it.
I regret that it is so difficult to meet women who are into this kind of practice.
You don’t piss on just anyone
If you’re having trouble finding, it’s probably because it’s a very intimate practice. So, “seeking woman for golden shower” just doesn’t quite work. Basically: You don’t piss on just anyone. And you don’t let just anyone piss on you.
I think that for many enthusiasts, there needs to be an intense desire for the other person, the desire to flood them with us, to “mark” them, just as much as to giving them our fluids, all our inner warmth.
Giving your own fluids… that’s also what it’s about. We pee on them because we don’t have litres of cum or lube to give them, but it serves as a substitute..
A notion of giving in urophilia
For me, there is a notion of giving in this practice; a gift that one doesn’t just give out to anyone at random. Sometimes you can find that in ejaculation. For my part, I don’t drink urine: I simply offer my body to a mistress who, because she desires it, wants to use me in that way.
It is true that sometimes, the Golden Shower can have a humiliating side… But if that humiliation is part of the game, then it gives you the shivers.
The sound of the golden liquid flowing thrills me
At present, I don’t have a Domina… But my last one, when she told me it was “Golden Shower Time”, I was already excited…
What do I enjoy? I couldn’t explain it, because what I feel is indescribable… Just the sound of the golden liquid flowing thrills me, and was enough to satisfy me in some situations…
The Golden Shower requires trust and relaxation
I was once a giver. It took me a good five minutes to get there. It was a Golden Shower. It’s incredible the trust and relaxation needed for it. As with fisting or sodomy, it is simply a matter of psychology. You need to unlock yourself, and it takes time.
Especially since this is not a preference of mine: at heart, I find it “dirty”.
A large number of people have spoken about the subject. So I have decided to split the article into several parts. Thank you to everyone who responded!
To be continued:
- Part 2: Urophilia: desires and experiences.
- Part 3: Urophilia: fantasies and experiences
Illustration: a photo of a tree commonly called “golden shower”, Flickr gallery by Kaizuka, Creative Commons.
